“It’s only possible to live happily ever after on a daily basis.” – Margaret Bonanno
Small changes can make a big difference in your outlook.
Many people are avid journal writers. They write about relationships, friendship, work and all of the day to day "stuff" of life. However, a common pitfall of journaling is we tend to focus on the frustrations and upsets, rather than the good things.
A Gratitude Journal is simple – you write down a few things that you are grateful for that day – and it helps us to remember the positive, especially when it seems like there are only problems at our doorstep.
Here are a few tips for starting a gratitude journal. Just do it. We promise you will find it to be a great comfort:
- Choose a journal and keep it by your bed, so it’s always easy to find.
- Write when you want to, but at least once a week. This is supposed to be enjoyable, so write when it feels right, with the idea of making the practice a part of your life. You will probably find that once you get started you will naturally write often and your thoughts won’t feel forced.
- Keep it simple. Write simple, quick lists of things you are grateful for. The idea is to capture happiness and not feel like the journal is a chore.
- Be specific. Include details so the memories come alive. One of the benefits of a Gratitude Journal is flipping through it later to remember good times in the past – especially the small moments that may not have been remembered otherwise.
- Be grateful. Remember that the journal is a place for gratitude. Talk about difficult parts of your life, but do it in a positive way. Transform your thinking to realize you are strong enough to handle life’s curveballs.
If you prefer an electronic journal, HappyTapper makes an iPhone app that collects your daily writing. Even better, the web-based HappyRambles emails you each day to share what you are grateful for. Your entries are stored in a secure online gratitude journal.